A Common Complaint We Get: Too Many ‘Special Place’ Options!! | Print |  E-mail
Sunday, 19 April 2009
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Hi Belleruth,

I have been using your guided imagery audio for pain for several weeks now.  I love it!  Thanks so much!  I have one issue, though.  Although I am greatly soothed by your voice, I find myself distracted when you are talking about what my “special place” might be, as I have identified it and go there easily.  Do you have any suggestions? Should I just put on the music (which I also purchased and absolutely love) and attempt to do my own imagery without your wonderful voice? That would seem so less “guided.”
Thanks!

P.S. I have used Steven Mark Kohn’s music accompanying my acupuncture and it is perfect.

Dear Chris,

Thanks for the kind words.  I’ll pass them along to Steve. 

What you say about all the choices for the special place is something we've all heard before.... so much so in fact, that I've cut down the number of options on recent recordings. 

But maybe after I explain why they were written that way, it won't bother you as much.  Here's the thing:

Every time someone imagines something super-sensory - like the feel of waves lapping at ankles and sand squishing between toes - they go deeper and deeper into the kind of altered, super-relaxed, immersive, right brain state that you want to be in, in order to get maximum healing impact for the subsequent imagery.  

So that string of different images you hear: the smell of peat moss in the woods;  the feel of slippery pine needles under your feet on the forest floor;  heavy sweetness of meadow grass;  ozoney, crisp, ocean air; sitting on a nice, warm rock in the sun... etc etc... that's not to help your left brain decide on a place – most people   already have that choice made.  Rather it's to let each sensory image gently nudge your right brain into sinking deeper and deeper into immersive, healing, altered state. So all you have to do is let your attention rest lightly on each suggestion and then move on.  It's a matter of exercising your sensory and imaginal muscle, to ready you for the more targeted imagery to come.

If this is impossible for you to do, then you could either give yourself permission to just ignore that part;  or you could start the CD where that section ends, using a counter so you know the exact spot; or you could just use the music alone, as you propose.

But, really, I think the problem could simply be coming from your notion that you're supposed to be using those suggestions to help you decide on a place, rather than its true purpose, to help you get into the optimum, right brain mind state.

I hope this helps.  Please let me know what you decide!
All best,
Belleruth 



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written by Penny, April 22, 2009
Thank you to you both for asking and for answering this question. I've thought about it, too, and wondered if I wanted it done differently. I will say that I respond very well to the different sensory suggestions, and look forward to experiencing the various "special places." It really works for me because I love all those kinds of places. I can appreciate that it's distracting for others, but I thought you'd like to hear from someone for whom it works.
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written by Victoria Engel Thomas, April 23, 2009
I have used Belleruth's CDs for many years and also find the descriptions of "special places" distracting. Could be cut way down for my taste. I find I start to settle into a place and am then pulled to another location by the next imagery. Could one General SelfCare CD be offered without the variety of special place suggestions? Thanks for considering.
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written by Rebecca Cratin, April 23, 2009
Belleruth, I found your comments here very informative. I never thought about the different images being used as brief experiences of deeper relaxation, with their own sensory experience speaking to the right brain. I too saw them as options for choosing a safe place, and direct my clients to let the inappropriate images just pass by, and continue to focus on the one they have chosen. It is a very brief part of the imagery experience, and they seem to have no trouble doing it that way, nor do I when I use them. However, I shall now tell clients who are listening for the first time what you have explained. Thank you for the clarrification. Rebecca
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written by Rochelle , April 26, 2009
Hi Belleruth,

I'm pleased someone asked this question. I personally do have trouble finding a "special place". I thought that I must have a poor imagination. I do have a general notion of a place that appeals to me but that place often changes each time I listen to your tapes and I can almost never imagine the place with all the sensory detail that I would like to be experiencing. I thought that I really needed a more detailed description of a special place. After reading your explanation of how your details put the listener into a more relaxed altered state of mind, I realize that is exactly what they do for me. Whether or not I am in the "right" place, I find myself becoming deaply relaxed and the subsequent imagery works very well for me.

I'm happy to have found this question because now I won't have to worry about being in the "right" place.

Thank you so much for your special CDs. Since I've discovered them, I use them almost every day. My son introduced me to self hypnosis. Later a friend of mine suggested your tapes. I still do use self hypnosis but that feels like work. Your tapes are pure relaxation, an island of peace in a stressful world, and a definite treat for me.

With great appreciation,

Rochelle
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written by Belleruth, April 27, 2009
Rochelle,
You can't imagine all the visits we've had to this Q & A... You are in good company. I had no idea this issue was plaguing so many people... important to know!
I'm glad the answer was helpful to most.
Thanks for writing.
BR

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