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She's Finally Dumping That Abusive Philanderer – But Why Is It So Hard? |
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Monday, 22 December 2008 |
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Dear Belleruth:
After being married for 33 years to the same man since I was 21 years old, I have asked for a divorce. He has been unable to change his emotionally & verbally abusive behaviors, in spite of counseling. In October, I discovered he was having a sexual affair (2nd time) with a woman younger than him (he is 58, she 45). He said he wanted a divorce, that he has been unhappy a long time. I said fine, I will make this happen.
I am fed up with him, but I feel so sad, heartbroken really, in spite of the problems. What do you suggest for all the emotional upheavals? Please change my name to Kathie. Do not give my last name or email.
-Kathie
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We got this wonderful report from a woman who was struggling with fertility issues |
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Friday, 08 February 2008 |
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We got this wonderful report from a woman who was struggling with fertility issues and who used guided imagery to help process her own feelings but also to re-establish a supportive connection with her husband.. |
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A woman in an emotionally abusive relationship asks what self-esteem CDs she can listen to, in order |
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Friday, 13 October 2006 |
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A woman in an emotionally abusive relationship asks what self-esteem CDs she can listen to, in order to drown out the insulting voice of her significant other, who is significantly making her miserable.. |
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A relationship ends because one of the partners is in denial over serious problems with chemical dep |
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Wednesday, 27 September 2006 |
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A relationship ends because one of the partners is in denial over serious problems with chemical dependency.. What can be done to help the other partner deal with the heartbreak and loss, she asks.. |
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A childhood sexual abuse survivor who has been sorting out her abusive relationships and dealing wit |
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Wednesday, 05 July 2006 |
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A childhood sexual abuse survivor who has been sorting out her abusive relationships and dealing with her PTSD, has come upon a stumbling block - her negative connection (or disconnection) with her body |
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Woman asks how to learn to approach gentlemen without fear of rejection |
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Monday, 06 June 2005 |
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A 47 year old woman with grown kids hasn’t dated since she was divorced 13 years ago and wants to know how she can learn to approach gentlemen without fear of rejection |
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Couldn't imagery be used by couples for problems within their relationship? |
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Monday, 02 August 2004 |
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Someone asks if imagery couldn’t be used to help couples who are entrenched in anger, finding themselves unable to connect, or just drifting apart, and BR agrees that imagery is great for breaking through old patterns.. |
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